Many people like to think of themselves as kind, and to some extent, they are. Claiming this quality makes them feel good, and small acts of generosity may make them look good too. But some only see themselves this way because they’ve set the bar low — either convincing themselves they’ve cleared it or simply… [Read More]
Take the Shoe-on-the-Other-Foot Test
Fairness affects many areas of our life. And yet, even though there’s consensus that things should be fair, it doesn’t always turn out that way. That’s because some folks have no intention of being fair; others evaluate fairness based on how something affects them rather than considering how they’d feel if the roles were reversed…. [Read More]